How to tell if he wants his cock sucked question

[Sammywho]

Hi new to the gl community and was hoping for a little guidence. My local abs has several gl booths. The times I went I kind of just hung out in the store looking at merchandise and seeing who walk in etc. Being an oral/bottom is there a way to signal or clothing to wear or something like that would let another person know I am an oral/bottom before going into a booth? I just dont know how to tell the difference when say six guys are hanging out in the movie rental department, all of which are going to hit a booth, who wants their cock sucked and who wants to suck... I hope this makes since.. thank u

[bjbud4u]

It's difficult for me to remember back to when I was a "newbie" at a gh arcade . . . lol
1st of all . . . it's NOT a life-or-death situation. If you get into a booth and find that your neighbor wants the same thing as you . . . . it's not the end of the world. One of you will move on to another booth. I'm assuming you know the "finger swipe" in the hole technique . . . right??
A tell-tale sign to me when each booth has a chair . . . Guys who ONLY want to be sucked will not sit. A guy who only wants to suck will sit or kneel. Guys who are open to either will probably sit. So . . there's that. The best case scenario for you would be . . . a guy who remains standing and immediately pulls out his junk and begins to JO. I would say - there's a 99.8739% chance you got a winner.
I hope this helps a little. I'd be happy to answer any specific questions here - or - if you wanna msg me. Good Luck - and happy sucking!

[Sonny]

What bjbud4u wrote is right on. Just booth hop if you don’t get a cock to suck on. I don’t know how many times I hoped to find someone to swallow my cock and load and instead, had a cock come through the hole as soon as I locked the door! Nobody cares, they just move on. Don’t worry, it isn’t that structured. I’ve had great blowjobs from feeders who then were looking for a return bj. Not my thing, most times. That’s the beauty of anonymous gloryhole sex! Relax, enjoy and concentrate on making the cock you suck cum a lot!

[Sammywho]

Thanks good to know. I actually had no idea about sitting or standing. It must seem like thats a given but I really didnt know. Another question if I may. So being I’m a bottom as well (cd now and then too) what does one do in that situation where they dont mind sucking a cock but also want to be topped?

[Sonny]

One of two things - or both: ask if your hard cocked person would like to fuck you. Or stop sucking and back your ass to the gloryhole.
They may ask you to keep sucking instead. Or they might leave.
Or they might fuck you deep and raw. Might ask you for a rubber they could use, or even ask you into their booth to really shove their cock in nice and deep.
Remember, it’s just a gloryhole.
If you are in an adult bookstore, just go with the flow.
Nobody should bother you about your choices, just like you shouldn’t bug them about theirs.
Easy!

[Rignes]

This can be frustrating. There are so many time that I am in a booth and another guy walks in next door only to stand there and do nothing. It's rare for someone to unzip and start wacking off. I won't wag a finger through the hole because I assume if he just stands there he's not interested. I also like to see it first before I make an offer.

[Sonny]

Hi new to the gl community and was hoping for a little guidence. My local abs has several gl booths. The times I went I kind of just hung out in the store looking at merchandise and seeing who walk in etc. Being an oral/bottom is there a way to signal or clothing to wear or something like that would let another person know I am an oral/bottom before going into a booth? I just dont know how to tell the difference when say six guys are hanging out in the movie rental department, all of which are going to hit a booth, who wants their cock sucked and who wants to suck... I hope this makes since.. thank u

If you dress as a CD and go into a booth, I think it’ll be quite clear what you want! Plus, do the wagging finger bit. Or put your tongue through the hole!
Hot!

[Sammywho]

Thanks I kind of agree its a little uneasy if the guy next to you just stands. Not to mention the legal problems that could happen if you make the first move.

[bjbud4u]

This can be frustrating. There are so many time that I am in a booth and another guy walks in next door only to stand there and do nothing. It's rare for someone to unzip and start wacking off. I won't wag a finger through the hole because I assume if he just stands there he's not interested. I also like to see it first before I make an offer.

Good point. I don't hear stories of "entrappment" these days - but - that kinda inaction used to mean trouble. I think it more often means the guy is curious but timid and/or is not sure what to do. But I agree. I won't act until they show some interest.

[Sonny]

Thanks I kind of agree its a little uneasy if the guy next to you just stands. Not to mention the legal problems that could happen if you make the first move.

Timid or not, some dude who just stands there could be a problem.
I have mentioned before that one of my old favorites had these ‘L’ shaped booths. No doors, no gloryholes. The short end of the ‘L’ led to the hallway and the long end that nobody could see you in the booth unless you were right on top of the screen. I had guys walk in and just stand there. I always ignored them because of the worry they were cops. I didn’t even touch myself in that situation, kept it in my pants. But often, he would rub my pants or even unzip me. Just as often, he’d pull his cock out.
I always was standing by the chair.
Sammywho, if you are trying to pick out someone in a hallway, it becomes more difficult.

[bratboy82]

When i first started going i was really nervous. Didn't know what to do. I learned most on my own because I didn't want anyone else to know what i was doing. Just relax and do what feels right to you. Remember what works and what doesn't. I never make any moves on the main floor or even in the hallway. I wait in a booth and see what cums in. You can usually tell what they want. You are getting some damn good advice from the others here, wish i had someone to tell me all that. Lol

[Sammywho]

Thanks for the reply. Its to bad say the community doesn't have some type of a dress code. Like if you wear a ball cap backwards your an oral/bottom if you wear it to the bill to the front your a dom top. I know it sounds silly but for us newbees its really frustrating. For me, I enjoy giving a man a female type bj and being topped. Pleasing them far beyond what they exxpected. The lure of ambiguity of a gloryhole, only identify with a mans cock, is very attractive I must say. I hope to make it a regular event.

[bjbud4u]

For me, I enjoy giving a man a female type bj and being topped. Pleasing them far beyond what they exxpected.

I had to chuckle a bit about how you like to give a "female type bj" . . . I immediately recall a guy commenting on a dif thread . . . "I go to an abs GH to get a quality BJ. If I wanted a half-assed one - I'd ask my wife"

[Joeweekend]

The most obvious signal you can give, beyond the finger swipe, is to just get on your knees facing the hole.

Dude on the other side will get the massage loud & clear right away.

[Sonny]

Thanks for the reply. Its to bad say the community doesn't have some type of a dress code. Like if you wear a ball cap backwards your an oral/bottom if you wear it to the bill to the front your a dom top. I know it sounds silly but for us newbees its really frustrating. For me, I enjoy giving a man a female type bj and being topped. Pleasing them far beyond what they exxpected. The lure of ambiguity of a gloryhole, only identify with a mans cock, is very attractive I must say. I hope to make it a regular event.

Please tell us all about any of your events!

[bjbud4u]

[QUOTE=Sammywho;19318] some type of a dress code. Like if you wear a ball cap backwards your an oral/bottom if you wear it to the bill to the front your a dom top.


Not that it's necessarily a "dress code" but as a gh cocksucker - you tend to turn your cap backwards so the bill doesn't bang against the gh wall . . . and keep you from getting as much dick down your throat.

[Laceyfemme]

Thanks for the reply. Its to bad say the community doesn't have some type of a dress code...

As a devoted crossdresser, there are a few "dress code" suggestions I might make...I encourage anyone with at least a little curiousity to give it a try!