Where the hell is everybody on this board anymore?

[middy99]

I'm seeing almost no new activity here in months. Very very few posts, and some of our prolific posters here like BJ4U seems to have been banned. Is there other places on the internet that GH enthusiasts are going to now? I hate to see this site die a slow death due to lack of participation.

[middy99]

I find the lack of activity here strange as a couple of years ago there was far more posts on a daily basis. This could be a really cool site if more people would participate.

[pantygal]

I'm beginning to wonder what has happened also. Several weeks ago some poster was selling medicine on here. Wish more people would post on here about gloryholes.

[MrFuckles35]

address4sex.com maybe

[ExploreLA]

a LOT of guys join, say "hey i'm here looking!", wait 10 minutes, and never come back when there's no instant response. :(

[mcluvin78]

I'm seeing almost no new activity here in months. Very very few posts, and some of our prolific posters here like BJ4U seems to have been banned. Is there other places on the internet that GH enthusiasts are going to now? I hate to see this site die a slow death due to lack of participation.

Wondering the same thing ,Bj4u really helped keep it going .

[MrFuckles35]

https://web.cruisingforsex.com/bb/indiana/
https://outpersonals.com/intgroups/lo5260/acshow_group.html#out?{}

c4s seems to be the more active

[stonemountain]

I had forgotten all about this site.....but my computer remembered my passwords. I will update and hopefully reel some into my home glory hole.

[CptnFajita]

Several things:

1) Glory holes and adult theaters are becoming fewer and further between. I live in a metro that's two million-plus people, and there's only one ABS left that has a couple of holes. There are two worn-out, busted-down adult theaters which do have some heavy playing from time to time, but it's dangerous; bad part of town and the cops bust both places every so often. Nobody needs that kind of drama to work through. If I want to relax and spend some time glory hole sucking and/or adult theater playing, it's about an hour and a half drive, one way. Burns half a day, and then it's always hit and miss, as everyone well knows.

Back in the 80s there were a lot of busy bookstores in most metro areas, where you could drop in pretty much any time and either unload or gulp down a couple in relatively short order, but those days are gone. I expect this is the case in most parts of the country.

2) With the demise of craigslist, backpage, etc., and the dwindling number of ABSs, many average guys who discovered the pleasures of being blown have moved on. I used to suck off a lot of working class dick around quitting time at a busy ABS I frequented, as well as being blown many times myself. Extremely pleasurable, but something you can live without if you have to.

You'll notice a lot of the frequent commenters here, myself included, are mature guys who developed the taste several decades ago, before the internet and all its porn.

3) There are other sites around which are more popular for the more hard-core among us, such as Squirt, cruisingforsex, etc. Plus, this isn't a hookup site. It's mostly just conversation. That, plus the "hit it and quit it" mentality of guys in general keeps the traffic low here. If you want to visit about sucking dick, this site is for you. Finding a cock to suck, not so much.

[Maxse]

If you want to keep GHs and ABSs around and available, you should visit every time you have some spare time. Don't loiter and feed the machines. They need to stay in business. Many cities have them but they are grandfathered in and new laws will prevent new ones from opening. Give them your business often. You don't even have to stay and play if you don't have time. Go in, buy a card, go in the back and hand it to someone that will use it or stay and get sucked or suck a dick.
Who do I contact in DC to get them on the endangered species list?

[middy99]

I agree about the generalities of what you are saying about the changing times. However, there are still guys, and there will still be guys who want their dicks sucked gloryhole style due to all the bonuses I could detail here but won't because it will take me too long plus us experienced types will know all those points anyways. So, despite the internet and the changing nature of hook ups as a result, I think the GH arcade bookstore will still exist in areas where the are ALLOWED TO WITHOUT INTERFERENCE BY LOCAL GOVERNMENTS! Take for example Oregon, they have TONS of GH bookstores that do great business. Some US states are better than others when it comes to adult bookstores, especially with GH's. North Carolina, which is closest to where I live in SW rural Virginia, is an hour and a half drive away, which takes away the immediacy of being horny to suck dick or wanting to get your dick sucked in a hurry. West Virginia has a fair amount of GH ABS stores that do okay business but they are a little further for me to drive to. I try to make GH bookstore trips about once a month as it gets expensive for me after gas and admission and a lunch I'm out 50 o 60 bucks for just one excursion! Makes me nostalgic for days of twenty years ago when I first started doing this while I was a fresh young Sailor in the Navy stationed at Lakehurst Naval Air Station in south New Jersey where there are plenty of GH adult arcades and could slip off after changing out of my uniform into civilian clothes before leaving base and stop at the ABS on the way home, pay my 3 bucks for tokens, cruise the hallways, make eye contact with a hot guy who looked horny for my package, drop into a gloryhole booth, whip it out and get my pent up young Sailor load expertly sucked off in short order as I never lasted that long when the head was good, zip up my jeans and leave the establishment with a happy grin on my face and do this on a daily basis. You could set your clock to me as I would hit the Williamstown NJ bookstore about 5 PM every weekday. Those halcyon days are long gone as I live in the sticks now and have to drive down to Annabelle's in Winston Salem NC. That place is pretty good, 10 bucks gets you in all day with in and out privileges, which I use to go check out another less busy ABS store with GH across town called New Visions, where I have had a few hot encounters, However Annabelle's is fairly crawling with cocksuckers and a reasonable supply of feeders like myself. When I get there after my hour and a half drive, I have to give myself time to get back into the sexual vibe as the long drive kinda kills it for me. So after I get sufficiently worked up to participate and spot a hot trick or someone who is hot who is hitting on me then I will give it a go. I like to get my money's worth as I like to get off several times in those few hours I am visiting there. I hate being out too late so I limit my hours there at Annabelle's to roughly between 11 AM to about 5 PM or so, then I have that hour and a hale drive back to Roanoke Virginia to contend with. Then after I get home a long show and then a couple of hours lying down in bed to rest and recoup!

[middy99]

I too agree, but there are still GH havens in places like Oregon and West Virginia, and even NC, where I end up driving an hour and a half one way just to go and play at a well used and well frequented GH video arcade down there. I think there will always be guys who will want to get sucked off GH style as it is a proven system that works for both parties involved! True the old days of GH's in practically every sleazy men's room (which is where I first learned about GH's in the Eighties) and lots of GH arcades are long gone with the Eighties. However, there are several states where they seem to be hanging on at, and we should do our best as GH fans to try and frequent those places as much as possible while they still exist. As for this message board, the lack of responses is discouraging to say the least, as there are no other places on the internet that I am aware of that have people discussing the art of GH cocksucking. I agree this isn't a hookup site, and I am glad it's not in a way as that would take away from the idea of a discussion forum. I just don't know what to do to perk things up around here honestly. I do belong to Squirt.org and Crusingforsex, which BTW is rather out of date with its information compared to Squirt.org. I use those sites to monitor the activity at the various GH arcades that are of interest to me.To me the best GH vids are to be found on Xtube, with Pornhub coming in second. Now I do pay 10 dollars a month to a site called 411gloryhole.com, which has a lot of authentic content from places outside the USA where the GH scene is thankfully alive and well still, and there are some hot videos to be found on that site. The rest are just trash sites that have a lot of garbage filler material on them. If anyone knows of any better video site let us know please.

[ExploreLA]

there are apparently a good supply close to me. i've had guys tell me that they've visited me before, but it had been a while, or through some other site or app, then they gave me the location, and they were within a mile, but not me. so far, there have been 3 different places that weren't mine, that people have told me about. so the private ones are still out there, but agree, all those hits, and not even a comment, can be tough

[middy99]

there are apparently a good supply close to me. i've had guys tell me that they've visited me before, but it had been a while, or through some other site or app, then they gave me the location, and they were within a mile, but not me. so far, there have been 3 different places that weren't mine, that people have told me about. so the private ones are still out there, but agree, all those hits, and not even a comment, can be tough

So, I gather that you run a private GH? How's your overall turnout rate? Do you wildly advertise your GH and if so where? Thank you.

[ExploreLA]

I've tried DoubleList, with mixed success, same with CL under "missed connections". It's hit or miss what makes it through, and what gets flagged. I put in one (on CL) that was pretty forward, and instantly flagged. I tried it reworded more carefully, and flagged again. I tried the most innocent, "I think we exchanged glances at (local coffee shop)", and instantly flagged. But if you look, there are posts where guys are pretty blunt, that are still up there, without issue.

I've tried sniffies (dot-com). I've tried grndr. I come here more to read for tips, and to share experiences, because i haven't found any active feeders in my area, but I do keep hoping. ;)

I could be busier, but I have to get a vibe on someone before I send out an invite. If they start "address?", before "hi", I usually don't bother. And I get that all the time--messages that are "send address", and nothing else.

[middy99]

I've tried DoubleList, with mixed success, same with CL under "missed connections". It's hit or miss what makes it through, and what gets flagged. I put in one (on CL) that was pretty forward, and instantly flagged. I tried it reworded more carefully, and flagged again. I tried the most innocent, "I think we exchanged glances at (local coffee shop)", and instantly flagged. But if you look, there are posts where guys are pretty blunt, that are still up there, without issue.

I've tried sniffies (dot-com). I've tried grndr. I come here more to read for tips, and to share experiences, because i haven't found any active feeders in my area, but I do keep hoping. ;)

I could be busier, but I have to get a vibe on someone before I send out an invite. If they start "address?", before "hi", I usually don't bother. And I get that all the time--messages that are "send address", and nothing else.


Hey thanks for replying. I would very much enjoy reading about some of your best encounters, or even better, you ought to film your escapades from your side of the GH and post them here or on Xtube or Pornhub! I always appreciate good GH action on video! I am also going to suggest some additional free sites you can "advertise" on that have free basic memberships: Adam4adam, Surge, Taimi, Scruff. In a lot of those places, you got to be sly on your wording, like make your username something that hints at gloryholes for instance. Also, once you establish a membership, a lot of the sites will allow more explicit photos that have to be unlocked by request of anyone who might wish to see them on your profile. The best place to find sites like these and any additional sites is to go to Google Play Store and search for them. There are a lot of adult sites lurking on Google Play that you download to your device, phone, tablet,whatever. Hope this helps, and P.S. really, tell us about your best GH encounters and even consider filming them in the future for us fellow GH fans to see!

[ExploreLA]

Hey thanks for replying. I would very much enjoy reading about some of your best encounters, or even better, you ought to film your escapades from your side of the GH and post them here or on Xtube or Pornhub! I always appreciate good GH action on video! I am also going to suggest some additional free sites you can "advertise" on that have free basic memberships: Adam4adam, Surge, Taimi, Scruff. In a lot of those places, you got to be sly on your wording, like make your username something that hints at gloryholes for instance. Also, once you establish a membership, a lot of the sites will allow more explicit photos that have to be unlocked by request of anyone who might wish to see them on your profile. The best place to find sites like these and any additional sites is to go to Google Play Store and search for them. There are a lot of adult sites lurking on Google Play that you download to your device, phone, tablet,whatever. Hope this helps, and P.S. really, tell us about your best GH encounters and even consider filming them in the future for us fellow GH fans to see!
Thanks! I'll have to try some of those sites. I've made vids of me sucking, but sometimes guys have really grilled me about if I do it. Usually they flat out say that they don't wanna see themselves on pornhub :p It's funny to me though, because i'm the one who would be exposed, not them. I mean, do they think their dick THAT recognizable that someone would know? LOL from their side, I do understand that they don't want their side, especially those vids that show full faces, to be online. if i thought i was getting anonymous relief, and found "my str8 hung married neighbor with 2 kids" showing my full face on pornhub, i'd probably go after the sucker too. but i don't get when they don't want me making a vid of MY side. i need to figure out how to edit them, so my face isn't showing. i tried a mask, but the one i got is so uncomfortable and covers what it shouldn't, and doesn't cover what it should

[middy99]

Thanks! I'll have to try some of those sites. I've made vids of me sucking, but sometimes guys have really grilled me about if I do it. Usually they flat out say that they don't wanna see themselves on pornhub :p It's funny to me though, because i'm the one who would be exposed, not them. I mean, do they think their dick THAT recognizable that someone would know? LOL from their side, I do understand that they don't want their side, especially those vids that show full faces, to be online. if i thought i was getting anonymous relief, and found "my str8 hung married neighbor with 2 kids" showing my full face on pornhub, i'd probably go after the sucker too. but i don't get when they don't want me making a vid of MY side. i need to figure out how to edit them, so my face isn't showing. i tried a mask, but the one i got is so uncomfortable and covers what it shouldn't, and doesn't cover what it should


I understand about your pet peeves about the mask wearing thing. I see Xtube and Pornhub videos of guys GH sucking and somehow they blur their faces. I'd look into how to do that to existing videos of you sucking. Anyways, hell I'd settle for you to recount here some of your hottest and most memorable GH suckoff sessions you have done with some hot tricks over the years! I'm curious, do you have a real wood GH setup or how are you doing it? Lastly, can you at least post a snap or two of your GH setup? Thanks!

[ExploreLA]

I understand about your pet peeves about the mask wearing thing. I see Xtube and Pornhub videos of guys GH sucking and somehow they blur their faces. I'd look into how to do that to existing videos of you sucking. Anyways, hell I'd settle for you to recount here some of your hottest and most memorable GH suckoff sessions you have done with some hot tricks over the years! I'm curious, do you have a real wood GH setup or how are you doing it? Lastly, can you at least post a snap or two of your GH setup? Thanks!I don't have any place to hide a wooden one, so I have a really heavy-duty cloth one. I can barely hear through it if they say something. But it's nice, because I can throw it into a suitcase when I travel. I like to set it up when I get to my hotel room, just in case I get the urge, and just in case I find someone local. ;)

Hopefully my attachment comes through

[middy99]

That looks like a workable setup for easy installation. I won't lie, as wood ones are the only ones I favor, but hell I'd give that setup a try as a guy getting sucked off!

[ExploreLA]

yeah, we've chatted before about wood being better. i mean, i agree that would be hot, but i don't have a way to store it, or travel with it. but mine isn't one of those thin sheets, where you're wondering what the point it, when you can pretty much see everything, and can practically reach through them, because they're so thin. :D

[middy99]

yeah, we've chatted before about wood being better. i mean, i agree that would be hot, but i don't have a way to store it, or travel with it. but mine isn't one of those thin sheets, where you're wondering what the point it, when you can pretty much see everything, and can practically reach through them, because they're so thin. :D

I get your meaning!

[LongDong]

Im right here. someone post dick pics.

[CptnFajita]

I came here mostly because, as a closeted cocksucker, I have nobody with whom to discuss this... “hobby” of mine. I’ve used it as something of a confessional, to anonymously share some of the sluttiest fun I’ve had. The last event I told about has had over 100 views, but almost zero feedback, & that’s discouraging.

So true, and even more so as a closeted, straight, married cocksucker. I've had some enormously hot, orgasmic times over the years sucking dicks and getting sucked, a "hobby" you sure can't jaw about with your fishin' buddy. When I first found this site it was sort of cathartic, reading the thoughts of other men and women who get, and like, this "thing of ours." Too bad the site isn't a little more popular.