New Members and no new posts
 

I can't help but notice there are constantly new members being listed at the bottom of the page but none of them post. So frustrating.

Yeah, it happens on these style forums. I used to run a bondage one with over 2000 members and it would go gangbusters in the beginning, but by the time I pulled the plug, a couple of posts a month.

lets not give up too soon. Sometimes a newby has to get a feel for the forum b4 they branch out and participate. They're not likely to if they feel they are being chastised. I think the more lively we try to keep it - the more attractive it is to newbys.

That's a good point. I lurked for a while before posting.

If anyone feels I've chastised them I apologize, that wasn't my intent. Feel free to post when you are comfortable and ready. :)

I'm guilty of being a bit quiet

Miss this site
 

I used to enjoy this site very much. Seems to be about desd anymore. Used to get alot of good info from here. I'm sad.

I've been looking for advice, and not finding it. Yeah, Site seems dead...

In all fairness - newhere, Your questions have been very non-specific. And when I look thru the threads, my fellow members and I have tried our best to give you advice on your generic querries. As I have stated b4; I'd be happy to address any specific subject you have curiosity about. I'm sure others here are willing to do the same.

The truth is, about all of these fetish forums, is that most everything has moved over to FetLife

more info about fetlife please......any experiences/results? reviews? recommendations?