Both are at least bi. Doesn't matter if you're pitching or hitting you're still in the game. I was told that gem years ago.

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I don't get why some people have such a need for labels. Just because a guy takes 10 mins outta his life to stop and lose a load at an annonymous ABS g-hole . . . . doesn't make him anything - but a load lighter. If you are hung up on labels - - figure yourself out and put it on a T-shirt or bumper sticker . . . and let everyone else do the same if they feel the need.

I completely agree. Labels put everyone in a box and gets in the way of free flowing personal expression and suppresses the natural fluidity of ones individual sexuality.

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“The fluidity of one’s sexuality”
I stand corrected.
It is a continuum!

I worry about getting a std what are opinions on using a rubber I would like to feel a throbbing cock in my mouth

Limits your options - but - I'm sure there's a guy out there who will comply. I bet, though, if you, as a cocksucker, hand a condom through the gh - he will expect you wanna be ass-fucked. Hard to communicate thru the gh that you just wanna suck his gloved dick . . . but . . . if that's what you want - - go for it. Personally it does little for me. You don't feel that hot fleshy shaft which to me - is most of the "hotness" of sucking a cock. I'd at least want to keep the full condom as my reward . . . lol

Stroking my cock right now getting horny

I would like to feel a mouth on my throbbing cock.

Plus . . . . I might add . . . . it is incredibly impolite to talk with your mouth full.

Yes, I do think that a str8 guy can use my mouth as an anonomous penis hole and still be str8. "Str8" and "gay" are not synonymous with heterosexual and homosexual; they describe how someone behaves and what arouses them, not necessarily the gender of their sex partners. I am certain that many if not most of the men I have sucked off over the years have gotten hard and shot their loads because of the stimulation provided to their cocks by my moist, warm mucus membranes, not on account of any sexual or emotional attraction that they have to men or (heaven forbid) me. I am ok with this, and honestly find it very appealing.