When a "STR8" guy uses your (male) mouth in a GH, is it still "straight" to him?
 

Do you think that a majority of the time a straight identified guy uses your male mouth to unload in through a GH, that he is feeling like this is just another kind of straight encounter, or is he making various justifications in his mind about what he is doing?

Not that I particularly care or anything as long as I'm enjoying it too lol...

Your thoughts on the subject please...

Gr8 topic.
I've always considered using a gloryhole as nothing more utilitarian than using a fleshlight. You use it for one purpose: to relieve yourself of a load of jizz. To me that has always been the "glory" part of a g-hole. It's anon and has one purpose.

I think a lot of people conflate this with the role of the mouth-owner on the other side. In my opinion - these are two totally different things.

I really don't think it is important to assign titles . . . but . . . to me it seems if the sucker is a male . . he would pretty obviously be gay or bi. . . and the dick donor could be anything: str8, bi, gay. . . he's just using an apparatus to JO with. . . . whether that be a JO toy like a fleshjack or a hole in the wall that just might have a pair of lips, tongue & throat . . . . or . . hmmmm . . is that a warmed-up fleshjack ? ? ? ? who knows?

Depends
 

Maybe a guy can fool himself, at first. But anybody who isn’t sleepwalking or high on something when walking into an adult arcade has to notice other guys eyeballing them.
But, as I’ve written before, it could be that watching straight porn while receiving good head could be justification, it could also be that’s what floats their boat, regardless.
Another thing to consider is that for some guys, being the top means they are straight and it’s the guy who submits who is the gay one.
Mind games to me.
If you are a guy who is NOT stuck on a desert island and you let another guy suck you off, I think you are at least bisexual.
But then I doubt there are any humans who are 100% either way.

I just ran across this:
 

What a str8 college student thought about his first gh experience:

https://thoughtcatalog.com/anonymous...-a-glory-hole/

That was a pretty good read...
 

...and sort of similar to what I think a guy in his situation might feel like when he rationalizes it in a sensible manner.

Just a hole in the wall to get a load worked out while watching porn .It's so impersonal is the draw for me .Having my hard dick in someone's mouth and cumming down someone's throat that I don't know and I can't even see And hopefully never will.

Yes, exactly, and no conversation or talking of any sort either! Can't stand that if the cocksucker tries to talk to me in a situation like that. Kills the mood.

Straight men using gay mouths
 

I have been giving head and more to straight guys since before things got politicized in the early 1980's. Fact, straight men have been using gay men for gratification for a very long time. A dear friend of mine worked as a psychiatrist for the California Department of Corrections back in the 1970's. She told me the whole story of how men negotiate relationships in prison and how many straight men submit to more dominant men while incarcerated. It is natural. When they are released the vast majority go back to their previous identities. Out here in the world guys have a constant flow of info about sex. Now it is in your face and not like the old days when you had to go to a certain part of town or get hold of an underground newspaper or porn rag to find places where gay and bi guys cruise for sex. Now any ABS, titty bar, many parks, rest stops, all scenes clubs and gyms are pick up places. If you learn how to read men and how to signal effectively you can end up on your knees almost anywhere. The downside is that porn is so available on the web that guys lure you in to cyber fantasies with no intention of actually linking up. The bottom line is that if you treat men with respect, give them what they need and attach no strings you are going to be busy.

Interesting comments...
 

I see what you mean.

If he is sucking a dick or getting sucked he is bi at least

Both are at least bi. Doesn't matter if you're pitching or hitting you're still in the game. I was told that gem years ago.

Labels
 

I don't get why some people have such a need for labels. Just because a guy takes 10 mins outta his life to stop and lose a load at an annonymous ABS g-hole . . . . doesn't make him anything - but a load lighter. If you are hung up on labels - - figure yourself out and put it on a T-shirt or bumper sticker . . . and let everyone else do the same if they feel the need.

I completely agree. Labels put everyone in a box and gets in the way of free flowing personal expression and suppresses the natural fluidity of ones individual sexuality.

Agree!
 

“The fluidity of one’s sexuality”
I stand corrected.
It is a continuum!

I worry about getting a std what are opinions on using a rubber I would like to feel a throbbing cock in my mouth

Limits your options - but - I'm sure there's a guy out there who will comply. I bet, though, if you, as a cocksucker, hand a condom through the gh - he will expect you wanna be ass-fucked. Hard to communicate thru the gh that you just wanna suck his gloved dick . . . but . . . if that's what you want - - go for it. Personally it does little for me. You don't feel that hot fleshy shaft which to me - is most of the "hotness" of sucking a cock. I'd at least want to keep the full condom as my reward . . . lol

Stroking my cock right now getting horny

I would like to feel a mouth on my throbbing cock.

Plus . . . . I might add . . . . it is incredibly impolite to talk with your mouth full.

Yes, I do think that a str8 guy can use my mouth as an anonomous penis hole and still be str8. "Str8" and "gay" are not synonymous with heterosexual and homosexual; they describe how someone behaves and what arouses them, not necessarily the gender of their sex partners. I am certain that many if not most of the men I have sucked off over the years have gotten hard and shot their loads because of the stimulation provided to their cocks by my moist, warm mucus membranes, not on account of any sexual or emotional attraction that they have to men or (heaven forbid) me. I am ok with this, and honestly find it very appealing.

What if you truly do not know who is on the other side of the g-hole? In your scenario - if that person on the other side happens to be a male - you are suddenly bi? ? ? If that person happens to be female - you are str8? ? I'm sorry - but that makes no sense. Maybe the "labels game" is just totally unnecessary.

Very good point. A little deep for some . . . but I totally agree.