Sort of a tough situation; I agree.
It's been my experience that guys all sit in the theaters in total silence, like there's some sort of "no talking" rule. I think the darkness and anonymity of it sort of persuades everybody to sit there all clammed up.
Such is not the case though. If you'll pipe up and say something funny about the absurdity of the movie that's playing, or make some comment about the weather, guys around you will usually respond with a chuckle or a comment, which breaks the ice and may lead to a minute of chit-chat. I've found this generates a relaxing atmosphere, and helps enable the dick play to start (if it's not going on already).
I personally would view some guy sitting there sucking on a dildo as wierd and avoid him. But that's just me. If I were in your situation maybe I'd just visit your theater many times over a longish period to get the feel of the vibe, watch what happens and how it happens, and also let the regular patrons see you there. Most guys who visit adult theaters are regulars, and if they encounter you a few times they'll relax about the disability and tend to view you as just another guy who enjoys the adult theater kink. I'm guessing I've probably sucked the same cock more than once, over time, in the darkness of an adult theater, and not known it was a repeat customer.
If you're able, maybe you could start out be reaching over and stroking someone nearby. It's pretty non-threatening and feels good. You could offer, "need some help with that?" to someone closeby who has his meat out stroking. You may get turned down, but keep offering. Average married guys who aren't getting any pussy at home aren't too picky, and a few will think a warm, willing, talented mouth is enormously appreciated, even if it's owner is sitting in a wheelchair.
Any sort of light-hearted conversation in the theater is fine. It may be a good way to introduce your personality. I've sat beside guys, and, while we had each other's stiff cocks in our hands lazily stroking each other, chatted about the current news, car repairs, pussy, the movie that's playing . . . just ordinary guy stuff.
One time I was on a road trip and stopped into a theater I'd never visited before. This particular place had plastic patio chairs for seating and after my eyes adjusted to the darkness I could see a few guys clustered in the back, so I drifted over and sat down close to them. They were all sitting there like statues, dead quiet and not moving a muscle. After a few minutes I said, "ever see any couple traffic in this place."
One guy spoke right up and said, "there was a couple here about a half-hour ago and like three guys fucked her and left." "If I had a nickle for every time I've heard that . . ." I said, and they all started laughing. While I was talking I pulled my dick out, and like clockwork, all three other guys produced their semi-hard sausages too. I had a weathered, 50-year old farmer's hand rhythmically pumping my cock in about a minute. I ended up sucking two of them off.
my .02 cents
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