Question: Why are there always more suckers than suckees?

[Johnny Nobgoblin]

It’s a serious question and I’m interested in hearing input from the guys that frequent these places. Seems to me there’s a shocking number of “straight” married men like myself that like to suck cock, but don’t necessarily want their cock sucked. & I’m wondering why there seems to always be more guys cruising the gloryholes for cock than there are guys looking for mouths to feed?

[bjbud4u]

very interesting question. Sorta touches on an earlier question I posted about what it is that makes a cocksucker aDICKted to gh cock. I mean it's obvious why a sperm donor loves getting sucked off . . . (orgasm). And there's your question . . . more dudes are anxious to experience the gh on their knees (with no orgasm) than donors who would have the gr8er benefit. Baffling! It's almost like the desire to suck an anon cock is more gratifying than an orgasm. To your point of . . . "a shocking number of "str8 men" looking to suck cock" . . I'm not really up on those stats. But I think there is still the stigma of "fear" "intimidation" for a lot of dick donors to patronize an ABS gh arcade. I really think sites like this one are helpful to put them at ease and give it a try. And as for many of the guys who go with the desire to suck cock . . . I do think after they have some sucking fun - they will generally entertain at least one talented mouth & throat before they leave for home . . . (I could be wrong though)

[user1oh]

For me I prefer sucking. I like to see, feel, and taste differences in cocks/cum. As for getting sucked, once I shoot my load I lose interest in sucking another cock. Interesting to know if other guys feel the same.

[bjbud4u]

Originally Posted by user1oh

As for getting sucked, once I shoot my load I lose interest in sucking another cock. Interesting to know if other guys feel the same.

Pretty much the same here. That's why I wait til I've had my "fill" of cocks and cum and I've decided to move along . . . I'll usually feed a hungry throat just b4 I leave.

[ExploreLA]

Originally Posted by user1oh

As for getting sucked, once I shoot my load I lose interest in sucking another cock. Interesting to know if other guys feel the same.

Totally the same. Once I cum, you can go, because I'm done.

[stiffy74u2]

Originally Posted by bjbud4u

Pretty much the same here. That's why I wait til I've had my "fill" of cocks and cum and I've decided to move along . . . I'll usually feed a hungry throat just b4 I leave.

I usually set myself a time limit. About 20 mins before I leave, I look for a sucker. I usually cum within that time limit. Sometimes sooner, sometimes a little longer.

[Rignes]

Yeah, its very strange how difficult it is to find a cock to suck. I mean, seriously, that should be one of the easiest things in the world.

I also run into tons of guys who just stand in the booth next to me, feel their junk through their pants for a couple of mins, and then leave. Do they expect me to offer service without seeing the goods? Fuck, at least whip it out and get a semi so I know if I'm interested.

The best are when the walk in, get it out balls and all, get it up then stick it through the hole. No fanfare, no chit chat, no guessing. If they want to wait until I wiggle my finger at the hole that fine but at least show me what you got if you want the offer.

Why is this such a difficult thing?

[bjbud4u]

we're dealing with a whole new generation that are largely unfamiliar with GH's. In the "old days" everyone knew what to do and when at a gh . . . both public and abs arcade gh's. Now we have to wait for the new generation to learn about arcade gh's through sites like this and gh vids like those on xtube.com. And they're Still dealing with a lingering fear about std's in the post aids era. I love seeing that there are new members joining here all the time. I hope we can return to a time where gh arcades get active again with new sperm donors. Don't think we need to recruit any new cocksuckers though . . . . lol

[CptnFajita]

That seems to be the way it is nowadays, but it didn't used to be that way. Back when ABSs and gloryholes were more prevalent, there seemed to be no shortage of cock to suck. It's changed a lot since the 80s/90s.

I'm a married guy too, and as for me . . .

Originally Posted by user1oh

. . . I prefer sucking. I like to see, feel, and taste differences in cocks/cum. As for getting sucked, once I shoot my load I lose interest in sucking another cock. Interesting to know if other guys feel the same.

Yep, I'm the same. I try to suck as many as I can with the time I have. Usually works out from zero to two or three, then I pump my load down some willing throat and I'm done and outta there.

It's never worked for me to have a mutual suck buddy. If I get sucked off first I'm totally out of the mood and ready to go. If I suck him first, I'm still good, but usually the dynamic works on him the same so my subsequent suck-off turns out to be a lackluster fail.

[bjbud4u]

Originally Posted by CptnFajita

It's never worked for me to have a mutual suck buddy. If I get sucked off first I'm totally out of the mood and ready to go. If I suck him first, I'm still good, but usually the dynamic works on him the same so my subsequent suck-off turns out to be a lackluster fail.

For many of us - - the best case scenario for mutual sucking is a well-coordinated 69 situation. Back in the day that was always my fav sex activity. There's nothing like 69 edging for hours and load-shooting simultaneously. Awesome experience.