First time!!!
 

I am a 31 m and I have been tossing this around for years now. I think tonight may actually be the night I go. There is a well known place not too far from me. I need encouragement!!!!

Sorry - just saw your request for encouragement. Did you make it?? If not - tell me a lil more bout what we are encouraging you for . . . and I'll be there for you. Visiting a GH arcade for 1st time? thinkin bout getting sucked at a GH? Contemplating getting on your knees at a GH and taking the initial dickdive? . . . or . . . something else?

I'm sorry for the lack of information! I went to my first set of gloryholes last night. When I walked in I was so nervous. I walked around the store for a while pretending to look at things. When I finally went into the arcade, I walked past a bunch of men. Walked into my booth and just stood. I heard a couple people walk in and out of the room next to me but nothing. I got down and looked through the hole to watch a blowjob happening next to me.

I went to the theater room and watched a couple of guys jerk off around a male and female playing. Then back to the booths. Someone finally got on their knees and stuck their finger through the hole. But when I started to pull my cock out he got up and went to his door. I got nervous I was in trouble, like he was trying to catch people doing this or something, so I walked right out of the store. I'm so new to this and have so many concerns and questions and my fears are probably a bit irrational.

I wonder about putting my cock in a strangers mouth. What if they have some disease? I'd like to suck and get fucked too, but I feel like I'm too afraid to even consider it with strangers. I almost feel like I'm better watching other men go at it and jerking off to them.

Take it slow. Go with what's cumfortable at first. Just behave naturally. Go into a booth - put $$ in the machine - relax, have a seat (or not) select a vid you like. If you feel like it - pull out your junk and JO to the vid while keeping an eye on the g-hole. Try not to feel desperate. I like to act like what I wish the other guy next door would. Like don't sit there in the dark - If you wanna see him . . . don't you think he wants to see you JOing too? ? You would like for him to "put on a show" for you . . . so . . . it's only fair that you "put on a show" for him . . . right? ? ?
Now the safety issue - Common sense precautions: make sure you have no open sores on your dick and that it is clean. Try to be well hydrated so you can duck into the restroom and pee after you cum. STD's do not transmit as easily by oral contact as by anal. Now - if you are gonna do the sucking. . . . make sure you have no open sores in your mouth or lips. . . even if you have recently flossed - wait a couple hrs before you put an anon dick in your mouth. Take a quick look at the dick offered up to you to see that it is clean and looks healthy (no open sores. . . etc). If for any reason you don't wanna suck it . . . then don't . . . you can move on to another booth - or just sit back and do nothing. Remember - no one has a gun to your head (I hope). Just relax and do what feels right. No expectations.